Jan 22, 2008 3:36 pm US/Central
Ways To Date And Flirt After You Say 'I Do'
Deanna Frazier
The Courtship should not end with the Honeymoon
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To keep the courtship alive, you must agree never to take each other for granted. Think back to your dating days.
Remember that excited feeling you had when you were getting ready to go out with your special date?
Remember how hard it was to say good night and how you just detested being apart?
If you want your marriage to sizzle start dating.
Committed love partners know it is wise to plan their time together…Go on a date. Focus on having fun!!
Talk about it...Plan it in advance. Don't wait until the last moment. Take turns planning these events.
Lovers show their consideration for each other this way. To do otherwise is to take your togetherness for granted.
Everything else in your world is shut off...Phones, pagers, business and children.
Flirting is a skill that can continue to make a committed relationship even more interesting "That is IF you do the flirting with your partner."
Flirting with your partner on a regular basis can create more fun and excitement.
At a party position yourselves across the room from each other.
Flirt outrageously with each other while trying to keep other people from noticing.
On an evening out, use your high power flirting body language with each other.
Position your Body on a deliberate angle with a glance over the shoulder, chin down, eyes looking up with a smoldering look...and you can take it from there.
Make it a special occasion by leaving a trail of Hershey's kisses from the front door to you, wherever you happen to be.
Try holding your gaze a little longer.
Touch your partner as you walk by the kitchen.
It's never too late to begin a new, playful tradition. Being playful is a good thing! A wonderful thing.
Youthful and playful activities can add spark to your relationship.
It can help light a fire under long-term couples whose affections have cooled.
If you feel Bankrupt in the playful department, (and sometimes we do) spend an afternoon watching children play.
Being playful is to be more candid, intimate, and outrageous.
Success in marriage is more than finding the right person. Being the right person is even more important.
Get more advice from Deanna Frazier, Attraction Expert, Seminar Leader and Coach.
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